Making decisions together in ways that honor both individual wisdom and collective intelligence is one of the foundational skills for any group seeking to organise from interconnectedness.
Overview
This toolkit provides practical methods for groups to make decisions that:
- Draw on the full wisdom of all participants
- Create genuine buy-in and commitment
- Remain efficient while being inclusive
- Adapt to different contexts and group sizes
Core Principles
Consent vs. Consensus
While consensus seeks agreement from everyone, consent asks: āCan you live with this decision?ā This subtle shift often allows groups to move forward while honoring legitimate concerns.
Equivalence
Every voice matters equally in the decision-making process, regardless of role, experience, or social position within the group.
Effectiveness
Good process serves the groupās purpose. If a method isnāt working, the group has both permission and responsibility to evolve it.
Methods Included
1. Consent-Based Decision Making
A structured process that ensures all voices are heard while allowing groups to move forward efficiently.
When to use: For important decisions affecting the whole group Group size: 3-15 people Time needed: 30-90 minutes depending on complexity
Process:
- Present proposal: One person shares a specific proposal
- Clarifying questions: Others ask questions to understand (not debate)
- Reactions round: Each person shares thoughts without discussion
- Amend and clarify: Proposer modifies based on input
- Consent round: Each person states any objections
- Integration: Address objections until consent is reached
2. Advice Process
Individuals make decisions after seeking advice from those affected and those with expertise.
When to use: For operational decisions within someoneās domain Group size: Any Time needed: Varies
Process:
- Identify decision maker: Who has authority in this domain?
- Seek advice: Consult those affected and those with expertise
- Make decision: Consider advice but decision maker chooses
- Communicate: Share decision and reasoning with stakeholders
3. Emergent Facilitation
A flexible approach that allows the groupās collective wisdom to guide the decision-making process.
When to use: For complex issues without clear solutions Group size: 5-20 people Time needed: 2-4 hours
Process:
- Set intention: What outcome does the group truly want?
- Create conditions: Establish safety and openness
- Follow emergence: Let conversation evolve naturally
- Harvest insights: Notice patterns and possibilities
- Test decisions: Try small experiments before big commitments
Tools and Templates
Decision-Making Agreement Template
A template for groups to clarify their decision-making processes before they need them.
Objection Integration Worksheet
A structured way to work with objections that honors concerns while seeking creative solutions.
Meeting Design Templates
Formats for different types of decision-making meetings, from quick check-ins to major strategic decisions.
Common Challenges and Solutions
āThis Takes Too Longā
- Start with smaller decisions to build skill
- Use advice process for routine decisions
- Invest time upfront in process agreements
āSome People Donāt Participateā
- Create multiple ways to contribute (speaking, writing, small groups)
- Address power dynamics explicitly
- Check for accessibility barriers
āWe Keep Revisiting Old Decisionsā
- Document decisions and their reasoning
- Create clear criteria for when decisions can be reopened
- Regular review cycles for major decisions
Adaptation Guidelines
Every groupās context is unique. This toolkit provides principles and starting points, but groups should feel free to adapt methods to fit their:
- Size and structure
- Decision-making culture
- Time constraints
- Communication preferences
Integration with Other Practices
Collective decision-making works best when integrated with:
- Regular check-ins to catch issues early
- Conflict transformation skills for handling disagreements
- Systems thinking to understand impacts of decisions
- Appreciative inquiry to build on whatās working
Getting Started
- Choose one method to try with a small, low-stakes decision
- Practice regularly - these skills develop over time
- Reflect and adjust - what worked? What would you change?
- Share learnings with other groups exploring these approaches
Resources for Deeper Learning
- Sociocracy training organizations
- Facilitation skill-building workshops
- Books on collective intelligence and group decision-making
- Online communities of practice
Conclusion
The way we make decisions shapes the culture of our groups and the quality of our outcomes. By investing in collective decision-making skills, we create conditions for both individual wisdom and collective intelligence to emerge.
These methods require practice and patience, but they offer a pathway toward decisions that are both wise and widely supportedāthe foundation for effective collective action.